"If you love me you"ll do it", "It's no big deal,"no one will know".Guys seem to be masters when it comes to the pressures of sex and girls, you have to admit your longing to be loved can lead you down paths you never thought you'd go.I know what your thinking."She has no idea what she's talking about","Well she's not me and doesn't know my situation""But i love him" Am i right?Let me tell you watching and observing this world,i have learned girls seem to think their bodies are the only things they have to offer,to keep a guy "interested",but nothing could be further from the truth.You are more than a body,you are more than a face,you are a special creation created by God himself and he has a bigger purpose for you than to"give yourself away"to every guy that comes along.
I know the question that runs through most of our heads"If were not supposed to have sex then why do i have a desire for it or if i'm not supposed to why doesn't God take the desire away?"Well ,first off,God doesn"t say your not allowed to have sex at all,to be honest he created it,but he does want it to be in marriage only and secondly, God isn't going to take the desire away because HE gave it to you(WOW!).Surprising isn't it? He wants humans to connect in a intimate way,but there is a time and place.
Why should i wait until marriage?You might be asking.Well,unlike what television and other media portray,sex IS a big deal.It is much more than a physical experience and it can leave some major consequences and hurts.Sex is in fact a physical,emotional,mental,and spiritual experience.And
I'm sorry to tell you girls ,but sex will NOT make a guy love you more or make him fall in love with you.A guy can seperate his emotions when having sex because he is more physical,but ladies we are more emotional and you can't seperate your emotions when having sex with a guy.Alot of emotional hurt comes into play when you sleep with someone than if you would have decided to abstain and God wants to protect you from them.I'm not trying to put any guilt trips on anyone who may have given into the temptation because lets face it ,were human and as humans God gave us wants and needs,so abstaining is hard.And if you have given into the temptation ,it is never too late to decide to abstain now after all our God is "God of another chance".
You are more than a body,You are more than a face,you are a special creation created by God himself..In truth, God created you so you could find the true love of your life......HIM!And he has a perfect will of how sex is to be carried out in your life.He wants to protect you from the emotional trauma that sex outside of marriage can cause and he also wants you and your future husband to feel guilt free on your special wedding night.He doesn't want you to carry insecurities
to your marriage bed ,he wants you to be able to enjoy yourself without any type of baggage from previous experiences(Yeah God!)
If you follow God's will,God has plans for you and has a man waiting for you that will love you for far more than you have to offer.A man that will truely love you and not only what he can get from you.A man who will love you for you and knows the treasure you truely are.God created you to be cherished and loved not only wanted.A man can't give you what he himself does not have the bible says "God is love" if he doesn't have God, he hasn't experienced true love and will not be able to love you or treat you the way God intended.But,girls the same goes with you.YOU will not be able to love right without God in your life.Because there is no greater love out there than God's love.So if your seeking for love all you have to do is go to him because he has been waiting for you and calling your name this whole time.......
